Friday, May 19, 2017

Netiquette Core Principals For Responding To Rude Email Via Tabula Rosa Systems

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Responding to rude email

  Politeness works even with the rudest of people.

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        When someone sends a rude or angry email, how should one respond? Here are possible options:
1)   No reply
2)   Change the subject/deflect
3)   Polite but firm answer
4)   Defer for a period of time.
5)   Agree but reply, stating that it might have been said better.
6)   Agree politely.
Although it is usually best to pause before replying to impolite, terse, or insensitive emails, this delay should not be protracted. If the sender is a manager or a person of influence or authority, then a normal time to reply should not be delayed.

 When not to respond

          Certain emails do not warrant a response by Netiquette standards. It is still prudent to insure a response is positively not required or may have some implications.
1)   To a spam
2)   After one thank-you (i.e., know when to stop)
3)   When being provoked.
4)   To unsolicited messages with no specific relationship
5)   To a Bcc other than the sender
6)   If you are replying to a Bcc, do not use “reply to all.”
7)   Do not “reply to all” when no value is presented to all recipients.
8)   To “out of the office” automated messages
9)   When sender has set a noreply@***.com—this is done when the addressee is typically sending a message strictly for instruction purposes. Rather than leave the From field blank, which might cause a message to be ignored, placing this generic address in the From field encourages the addressee to read it. Usually the email will have information on making alternative contact.

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